Fame Is A Fickle Friend

What is a star? What is fame really? A self-indulgent lifestyle propelled by the media hungry America? No, I shouldn’t only blame America… fueled by the celebrity starved world.
I used to want to be a “star”, whatever that means. I was actually so close that I tasted it. It tasted like blood, that bitter taste that makes you thirsty for ice-cold water when it hits your tongue. I quickly backed away and have since only glanced backward once or twice. I don’t regret that I left my record label to basically be forced to start back from the beginning because I was being made into a product. I was told that I was no longer a human, I was a machine. I was told when to be where and how to be when I got there. I was told that I couldn’t cut my hair, that I had to be platinum blond and that anything I should have to say, I should say it in verse and with super catchy lyrics surrounding it. I was told that I could no longer be “Jodie” and that I was now “Jodie Platz” a product that was molded around my name and I had absolutely no opinion whatsoever into what went into this product that was for sale.
So then why do people crave fame? What is it that makes everyone want to be on the cover of the magazines? Don’t they see Robert Pattinson and how his anxiety about the entire situation is tearing him apart? Or maybe they don’t see the downward spiral that the likes of Lindsay Lohan and Britney Spears have been through? Why do they still want it after everything they see?
People will do anything for fame and money. People would go and be on a television show, objectifying themselves even if they didn’t get paid. I suppose there’s always the chance that if they are on the Real World or even maybe Jerry Springer that someone, somewhere will discover them and they’ll be the next big thing. However, how often does that really happen? Now you’ve gone on national television and have humiliated yourself in front of your friends and family for them to forever replay your threesome in the hot tub or your temper-tantrum on YouTube and TiVo. I don’t know about you, but my family already has enough reasons to laugh at me, I don’t need to hand them any more.
They do it for attention of course, and we happily oblige and give them the attention they want. We put these stars on pedestals so high that they’re untouchable to us. We look at them and see the perfection that surrounds their lives. The iced out watches, the Louis Vuitton luggage, the free clothes, limousines and cocktails around the clock… we see that and we want it, but it’s not real. The price of those things is too high. Nothing is really free to them because they sold themselves to be a machine. Inside those limo’s with the cocktails they’re sad inside. They’re drowning their sorrows in their champagne and telling themselves they should be grateful and thankful because they were dreaming of this since they were twelve years old. Just remember one simple rule of thumb; the higher the pedestal the harder they fall.
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Tags: Celebrities, Fame, Robert Pattinson




Posted on August 9th, 2009 at 7:43 pm
I just stopped by your blog and thought I would say hello. I like your site design. Looking forward to reading more down the road.
Posted on August 9th, 2009 at 10:21 pm
JODIE! I love this post. And how true it is. I know that fame is the reason why I don’t write under my real name. I still want to be able to deal with my real life without being recognized. I’m not saying that I am not that well known but still, no one around where I live and that’s the way I like it.
Fame can never be as good as we think. There is never a happy medium in it. *Sigh*
Posted on August 10th, 2009 at 1:49 am
I just have to say that i always enjoy reading things you write. Especially when they are true.
I hate picking up the pieces of the friends I have made watching them in the spotlight and hating everyone that hurts them.
Its a really cruel business and cant believe how many people want in.
Posted on August 13th, 2009 at 8:34 pm
Hi Jodie, that was a good post…I don’t understand it myself. I have never had the desire to be famous and I have a hard time understanding why or how certain people can put up having their life under the microscope…